On June 16, 2025, a significant study conducted by researchers from Virginia Tech examined the experiences of nieces and nephews who take on caregiving roles for relatives living with dementia. This groundbreaking research not only sheds light on a previously underexplored area in family caregiving but also highlights the various challenges these caregivers face as they navigate their responsibilities.

Unexpected Caregiving Roles

The study, led by Karen Roberto and Tina Savla, revealed that approximately two-thirds of the extended family caregivers surveyed had not planned to assume this role, indicating that many entered these responsibilities with little preparation. According to Savla, "That spontaneity shows extraordinary love and empathy while masking a lot of real stress." Many caregivers manage the demands of providing support to their relatives alongside their own familial and professional obligations, which can include:

  • Household tasks and assistance
  • Transportation and errands
  • Financial management and medication administration
  • Coordinating healthcare and social services

Emotional Ties and Motivations

The report emphasizes the importance of emotional connections in the caregiving relationship. Many caregivers cited their long-standing relationships with their aunts and uncles as a motivating factor, often expressing sentiments such as, "I'm just paying back the love my aunt showed me when I was a kid." These deep-rooted connections provide a sense of purpose but can also lead to stress when combined with caregiving pressures.

The Study Methodology

Researchers involved in the CareEx project collected data through telephone interviews conducted between 2021 and 2025 across various states including Virginia, Kentucky, Maryland, North Carolina, Tennessee, and West Virginia. The participants, aged between 38 and 67, indicated that they either lived with their relatives or visited them at least three times a week. The study's focus was to explore:

  1. The pathways that led to caregiving roles
  2. The management of caregiving responsibilities
  3. The emotional and physical challenges faced by caregivers

Key Findings

Roberto and Savla identified four overarching themes in their findings:

Theme Description
Relationship Foundations Explored the historical ties that influenced caregiving roles.
Pathways to Caregiving Investigated how caregivers transitioned into their roles.
Care Systems Analyzed the support systems and resources available for caregivers.
Trials and Tribulations Highlighted the challenges faced in balancing caregiving with personal life.

Conclusion and Future Directions

As the demographics of the U.S. population continue to shift, with an increase in both aging individuals and dementia diagnoses, understanding the roles of extended family caregivers becomes crucial. This study emphasizes the need for tailored support resources to assist not just traditional caregivers, such as spouses, but also nieces and nephews who find themselves fulfilling these vital roles unexpectedly.

Moving forward, Roberto and Savla aim to expand their research by interviewing more extended caregivers, including adult grandchildren and siblings, to gain broader insights into caregiving dynamics and to enhance the support available to these caregivers. "

“Understanding the contributions of extended family caregivers provides a more complete picture of the family caregiving ecosystem.” – Karen Roberto

Further Reading

For more detailed findings on this study, refer to the publication:

Karen A Roberto et al, Niece and Nephew Dementia Caregivers: Family Relationships and Care Dynamics, The Gerontologist (2025).


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